2020年8月11日星期二

The perfect wedding proposal

 Ideas for the moment that will 

last forever The marriage proposal is a very special moment in every relationship, because with the "yes" of the loved one, both sides promise to enter into the covenant of marriage. Many couples later cannot remember exactly the details of their wedding, but they never forget that moment for two.

But how do you design the perfect proposal? What are the ingredients for the world's most romantic question? And what do I have to look out for when choosing an engagement ring? We have put together the most important tips for you.

What is the meaning of an engagement?

The engagement period begins after the wedding proposal. The two partners are planning their wedding and many lovers use this period mainly to organize their celebration and to register at the registry office. From a formal point of view, engagement as a legal contract is not binding. In the event of an announcement, however, claims for damages may be made. There are no legal regulations on how long an engagement must last. It usually varies between several months and a year. 80% of all wedding couples make this decision. In the past, this time frame was set by society, but today some people take more time - that is entirely up to the fiancé.

By the way, an engagement can also come about automatically if you simply register at the registry office. That's the official, less romantic part. But if it is supposed to be an application beforehand, it is no longer necessary that the man has to ask the woman. After decades of emancipation, the most important of all questions can also be asked by the female part of the relationship.

The right time to get engaged

Basically, nobody outside can know when the time is right for two lovers to be engaged. It is of course ideal if you have already spoken to your partner about marriage, because this way you can be sure that you know the wishes and expectations of the other. It is also advisable that the two partners have known each other long enough and may have lived together for a while. Because that's the best way to judge whether you really want to spend your life together.

Otherwise, when choosing the engagement day, you should make sure that it does not coincide with another holiday. Some lovers find the overlap between their own birthdays and engagement nice, others prefer to celebrate twice. An anniversary that you have together is also ideal, e.g. the day you first met. By choosing this special date, you are showing your partner how much they mean to you. Such symbolic gestures are irreplaceable for a proposal.

The perfect place for your marriage proposal

Of course you don't ask someone somewhere if he or she wants to marry you. The choice of location in particular can say a lot about your relationship and also give your partner the feeling that you know him particularly well.

If you want to make a very classic wedding proposal, you should plan it at home or in a restaurant. In your own four walls you have every opportunity to prepare this moment in peace. Maybe you take a day off and decorate the apartment romantically or you cook your partner's favorite meal, you put on nice music and get dressed. Even in a restaurant by candlelight, the most important question is often asked. Either way, this variant of the application ensures a relaxed atmosphere and gives your partner the feeling that you would like to enjoy this intimate moment with him alone.

Meaningful

Of course, places are ideal for a marriage proposal, which connects the two of you. For example, the place of your first kiss would tell a piece of your common story and remind your partner of the many other moments together. A reunion with a vacation destination that both of you once really liked, or a place that exactly corresponds to a fantasy of your partner, can also be a wonderful choice. If your girlfriend or boyfriend has been talking for years about the fact that she absolutely wants to get the application on a jetty into the water, she will certainly be touched if you take her to such a place and it is decorated with rose petals, for example. Because then she already suspects what you are up to and at the same time realizes that you have listened carefully.

Spectacular

An engagement proposal can of course also be staged in a very spectacular way. This is always a question of type and should suit your partner. If you are both very adventurous, why not ask the question while bungee jumping or planning a wedding proposal on the Zugspitze? Ultimately, there are no limits to the imagination. Large dance choreographies with the whole circle of friends or a self-produced love film that ends with “Do you want to marry me?” Are also possible. The focus here is on the creative idea and the excitement that the moment creates in case of doubt.

Mysterious

Marriage proposals can be mysterious if the question is not asked yourself, but is delivered in the form of a message without a sender. Most of the time, the person who is meant is initially surprised and does not believe that the proposal is for them. For example, the future bride could read the engagement question in a field or find it as signs in the branches of a tree. To do this, you simply paint the individual words of your question (four signs: “Do you want to marry me?”) With weatherproof paint on various pieces of wood and hang them on the top of a tree. Until the dissolution, your future woman does not know that the application is valid for her. Advertising posters are often rented, which are on the daily route of the loved ones, or an airplane carries the banner with your request across the sky, while you happen to be sitting underneath in a flower meadow. With this choice of location, in the best case, the moment of dissolution is of course the most beautiful.

In this video , a man gave his loved one a self-made necklace with an engagement ring hidden in it. However, he only revealed the secret to her after a year.

Public

If you are quite sure that your partner will say “Yes”, you can also make the engagement application public. But always consider the embarrassment if you should actually encounter rejection. Here, too, it is true that large, public gestures are not for everyone - others, on the other hand, value them as a sign of great love. The classics among the public proposals are those on the screen of football stadiums. Sometimes spontaneity also means that many strangers are present: For example, when a man kneels in front of his girlfriend in the subway. There are also applications on cinema screens or even in front of the cameras. The effect can be great, because many people share the emotions with you at this moment - but the danger of humiliation remains.


The magic of the right atmosphere

If you are looking for ideas for your wedding proposal, you should make sure that you create the right atmosphere. Some ingredients can help you with this

Romantic

You cannot create romance, it arises. But you can help a little with their creation. Part of an engagement proposal is that you concern yourself with what your partner would find romantic. Of course there are the classic visual stimuli such as candlelight, romantic decorations (hearts and flowers), a beautiful ring and a special outfit. Depending on the place of your application, you can vary these atmospheric ingredients and, for example, let a sunset do the talking for you.

In love with detail

But it becomes particularly romantic when individual ideas round off the planning. Try to remember which objects are symbolic of your relationship. A self-made paper elephant can be just as romantic as a decoration with an old wooden boat - with a little imagination, anyone can imagine the love story behind it. This attention to detail makes your application a unique experience in the end.

For the senses

Even if you always have to think of decorations and light with romance, all other sensory impressions also belong to a perfect atmosphere for the wedding proposal. Make sure you think about the right music, because sometimes it says more than a thousand words. Special smells can also be deeply imprinted in the memory, so that later you always have to think about your happiness together, if you smell hay, for example. The same goes for the taste of something. It is not without reason that many applicants hide the engagement ring in sweet tartlets. Of course, sparkling wine can also round off the festive mood between you two.

The formulation of the marriage proposal

First of all, the most important thing: There are no irrefutable rules on how to formulate a marriage proposal. Actually there is only one thing, namely that your partner should understand you. It is well known that this sometimes works without words. You can also just drop on your knees and present the ring. Sometimes, however, it is precisely the few words that you can still bring to the trembling lips that are forever remembered.

The classic question is: "Do you want to marry me?" But it is wonderful if you send a few words ahead of this question when you apply for engagement. It doesn't have to be a long or memorized text that should convince your loved one. Simply use the following questions to help you think about it:

  • Since when do you know each other?
  • What have you already experienced together?
  • Why do you want to spend your life with him or her?

You can also formulate these words spontaneously. The main thing is that you know what you are about to say, otherwise the excitement might thwart your plans.

History and meaning of the application ring

Marilyn Monroe sang “Diamonds are a girl's best friend” in the 1960s and that has not changed much with regard to the engagement ring. Otherwise the world of engagement rings has been turned upside down in Germany in the last few decades:

Twenty years ago, engagement rings were classically understood as a pair of rings. Each partner carried his own on his left hand. Mostly these were made of stainless steel or silver. In contrast, it is quite common these days that there is only one engagement ring (for the woman, in this case). This tradition was adopted from the Anglo-Saxon region and is spreading more and more in our country.

Originally, the application ring was a symbol of prosperity. The future bridegroom therefore had to prove with an appropriate ring that he could take care of his bride after the marriage. At the same time, it was not made of the even higher quality material gold, because it was supposed to symbolize the promise of future marriage, but not to be confused with the wedding ring  . The engagement ring is traditionally adorned with a diamond. This cut stone makes the ring into the unique solitaire ring that many women have wanted since Tiffany & Co. first designed it in 1886.

Since this valuable piece of jewelry is usually too good to just keep as a memento, a proposal ring is sometimes worn on the left hand after the wedding. That is why it is all the more important when choosing the engagement ring to choose the variant that the beloved will still be happy to wear for many years to come.

Choosing the right application ring

The classic engagement ring is a ring set with a diamond. You will find a large selection in our shop. A diamond is chosen because this material is the hardest in the world and thus symbolizes a long, solid marriage. Future happiness should also be made to shine through the noble brilliant cut of the stone.

Of course, AURONIA also has numerous rings with zirconia stones that make your proposal ring sparkle. When making your selection, always consider how your partner would decide. Rings are an expression of mutual love, but also of individual personality. That is why we offer the right engagement ring for every woman, which opens her heart to your proposal.

Checklist - what to think about when making your wedding proposal

So that you don't forget anything on the crucial day, we have put together the important organizational points for a wedding proposal:

  1. Choosing a location
    Most of the time it is not enough to think about where to make the engagement proposal. So remember to reserve your location in good time, book your poster, order the cinema tickets, etc.
  1. Buy
    decoration Decoration conjures up atmosphere. No matter where you want to ask your partner, remember that everything is ready (candles, champagne, flower petals).
  1. Choosing music
    Either you put on your favorite music together or you ask the restaurant, for example, to play a corresponding song at the right moment.
  1. Arranging words
    This is the most delicate task for many lovers. But just try to relax and listen to what you really have to say.
  1. Initiating confidants
    There are always some confidants who have to keep tight. If you have to make arrangements with friends or work colleagues, for example, do so in good time.
  1. Don't reveal anything Proposals
    are best if they remain a surprise. Therefore, curb your nervousness and make sure that you do not reveal any bills etc. beforehand. At AURONIA we make sure that our rings are delivered in discreet packaging, so that your secret is safe until the day you apply for engagement.
  1. Don't forget
    your ring No proposal without a ring. You should take good care of him, because one hears again and again about lost treasures or misplaced treasures.
  1. Take a deep breath Take
    courage!
  1. Ask!

If you are very excited, always keep in mind that not much can go wrong. Most partners do not expect perfection when proposing marriage. What everyone expects, on the other hand, is the feeling that they have found the one person who loves them for who they are. If you can convey that with your proposal and your engagement ring, then nothing stands in the way of marriage happiness. semi formal dress


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